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Adrian ([livejournal.com profile] london1952 ) is visiting his mother in Leeds and to keep myself busy and out of trouble, I did a bit of tidying up (nothing major).
I sorted out a large box that contained a few magazines and some old stuff from what it feels like a previous life.

Are you ready for a trip down memory lane?

I moved to London in January 1997 and I was sweet, polite and quite naïve too. When it came to gay life, I was like the proverbial child in a sweet shop and not that much experienced either: I didn't really know what was in all those jars and had to open them one by one.

It was the days when my life wasn't "enhanced" by the internet and I had to do things like booking flights at the travel agent's. "Lonely hearts" adverts in magazines were more popular than they are now and in May '97 I placed one myself:




( ALAWP meant "all letters answered with photo" but I don't remember the meaning of PA - I know that it wasn't Prince Albert!)

Continues here... )

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The week-end wasn't a completely joyous affair.

On Sunday we received the visit of one of our gay neighbours/friends just before he loaded his stuff in Lynne's car and moved away.
And with that act, a long relationship (15 years) was over.

He was very stressed and said that he still loved his other half but that he had decided to move out. Oh, we are going to miss him!
In the next few days, we should see his partner too: it's going to be probably even harder for him, especially as he's on his own in what was their house.

We have also learned today that two of Adrian's oldest friends (another gay couple) have split and one of them moved out yesterday. They had been together for over 23 years. Again, the guy that left said that he still loved his partner but wanted more independence.

It's all very sad. And it's upsetting to think that you may still love someone but not being able to share your life with them.

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